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Vermijd mensen die…(3)

-Do not accept who you are but you want to change and 'improve' their image

-force you to live according to their rules, norms and values

-have fun and laugh at the misfortunes of others

-find themselves 'good' and the other and the world's poor(Nietzsche zei:'You hat for the "good" will be flying the most toxic compound stabbing')

-parasiteren,hit and run nothing rendering, but only want to capture

-say what you think, feeling and doing

-too hard or too soft talk, Your tight(pinch) or give limp handshake

-brag about their achievements and merits

-keeping an account of what they have done for you and you always rub under the nose

-do not respect your boundaries and your last attack and say that they only want the best for you(if they can know what that is)

-blackmail and threaten the friendship to say if you do not do what they want

-be mad at you if you do not agree with them

-You only call when they need you or anything you need, only want to capture here

-You never thank you for your help and service and this for granted

-say you unhappy them, making etc(what they can do only itself)

Vermijd mensen die….(deel 2)

Inspired by the statements of Vernon Howard, I made some statements about avoiding people who….

-say to know the truth

-claiming that their method is the only real way to happiness and awareness

-warn you about liars and cheaters(so as to appear honest yourself)

-promise your golden mountains

-say they don't trust anyone and nobody can be trusted

-gossip about others(so also about you)

-egocentric, pedantic, overbearing, be smart

-acting like an idiot, worn foolishly or stupidly

-your unsolicited advice and "wise’ give advice and think you know what is best for you

-try to convince you that they are right

-always lying crossways and being in contramine

-joke about everything, ridicule everything

-talking badly about others

-you just talk to the mouth, flatterers

-say of themselves that they are so honest and pure

-complain a lot, zeuren, zeiken, dreams and jokes

-you do not accept a go on and try to make you feel guilty and manipulate

-tell them to keep what they tell you a secret

-try to arouse your pity by being pitiful and playing the victim

 

Vermijd mensen die…

Vernon Howard, raar maar waar, nooit in het Nederlands vertaald, bij deze wel..

-je benaderen met droevige ogen

-emotionele liefde aan de dag leggen

-beloven om zich beter te gedragen

-hun goede daden opsommen

-weten wat je nodig hebt

-opkomen voor hun rechten

-proberen je in hun zaken te betrekken

-zich vervolgd en aangevallen voelen

-je iets willen laten inzien

-slechte momenten hebben gehad

-je vertellen dat je ze kunt vertrouwen

-enthousiast zijn over hun grote plannen

-zich gekwetst voelen door je weigering

-staren maar niet zien

-hun best doen om je te overtuigen

 

Vernon Howard(vertaald uit het Engels door mij)