Elimineer negatieve indrukken die je innerlijke kind met zich meedraagt
There are sufficient resources to focus on what you want in your life, but have you also wondered what precisely should let go?
The truth is that we have almost all energetic blockages that we took from our childhood and blocking our event needs,
and then the Law of Attraction is not working for us. We are not congruent, not clear as Americans say.
Many are displaced from those negative impressions of our inner child and so unconsciously, they can be triggered by insults and hurts or just comments, we do not respond as an adult but as our inner child that has ever been hurt.
What is unconscious is 10x stronger than our conscious, so if we consciously say I want this and the unconscious does that happen what the unconscious wants and we have therefore no idea why things fail us.
We also take negative impressions of our ancestors in us internalize it, of the 10 messages we got from our parents were there 9 negative and that says a lot about their state of being and way of perceiving and educate, Here is a diagram of Transactional Analysis:
Here are some of those impressions that originate in the inner child, cross but an on what you apply:
-1- I can not really be who I am, always do what, help, etc, to be able to be there and find myself well, I'm more of a human than doing a humanbeing
-2- I dare to take risks for fear of the unknown
-3- I'm holding on to the old familiar, even if that is not so good for me
-4 I'm afraid of change and suggest that any change is still no improvement, and remember that any improvement or a change
-5- I get my New Year's wish not after and not have other plans, I do not do what I say
-6- I write down my goals in black and white and get them so often
-7- I'm looking really for confirmation in the form of compliments, diploma’s, recognition and respect
-8- When I get up in the morning I'm already tired or am I going to come on the day
-9- I close new friendships and do not talk to strangers quickly
-10- My friends can not always count on me, I often excuses why I can not help
-11- I evasions and excuses rather than reasons
-12- I worry a lot, worry a lot even though I know that's not good for me
-13- I have a lot of stress
-14- I especially focus on drama rather than substance
-15- My life is not very enriched by interesting activities, it is rather dull and repetitive
-16- I am very sensitive to the opinions of others about me and just tell me how to
-17- I want everything, but fails to nothing
-18- When they ask me how I'm doing, I say something: "It's business as usual," or "I can not complain," or "Nothing special"
-19- I think of myself that I was not great and the wise do good though the results are not bepald that I do it well
-20- I often do not mean what I say and do not say what I mean…
-21- I expect another makes me happy and fulfilling my wishes but that does not happen
-22- I do what Ingeborg Bosch 'False hope' calls emanating from the as…than-formula, te weten: "Once I have that partner / job / etc then I will be happy", so no…
-23- I hang the dirty laundry not out even though I know that Americans say : "We are as sick as we are secret" and also that forego expression leads to depression.
-24- When I go shopping to do I feel screwed and screwed in place of the blessed that I can and should do
-25- You might also remember to think of something yourself, My list is not complete
The more often you can say yes to the above statements, the more blockages you have and the more negative impressions you have inner child and the more you have to let go.
I wrote articles about letting go, Here some highlights from those articles
I invited Cornelie me home. She is a charming woman in 80 with something about themselves jeugdigs. I asked her what were her most important life lessons she replied: "Let go and forgive" At that moment I saw a book on my table about letting go and a book about forgiveness, talked about synchronicity!
Inspired by Cornelie I went to buy more books about letting go. A must I think 'The secret of letting go' of Guy Finley fantastic book I 125 notes could make out. He writes, among others: "Releasing yourself(ego) is letting go of your problems, they are the same, "and" release follows the realization that sticking does not make sense more ". He also writes that all you want to control that controls you and that the war is in your.
The more you let go of how receptive you are for the blessings of the universe, de kosmos, van God
In Africa, they catch monkeys by making a hole in a tree in front of the curious monkeys and put some goodies in. If people leave, the boldest monkey to the tree and puts his hand into the hole, however, treats address as his hand became a fist, he would not refuse from the hole and the monkey to the goodies let even if people come to get him loose, he keeps himself caught. I think that's a wonderful story how you imprison yourself by not letting go.
A friar of the abbey The Slangenburg in Doetinchem said it very nicely. Hij zei: "Look Henny people do this" and he clenched his fists. "They stick to what they know and, but if you can not catch you, he should do "and then made this his hands a bowl. It was a lesson for me. I realized that I had a tendency to old, known to hold and that so there is no room for the new, unknown to serve themselves to. Paul van den Berg said: ;Why should we fear the unknown, only known you can frighten '
A child that was removed was mistreated by her mother by the child to surprise the child reached out to the mioeder and shouted that it wanted to stay with her so children can attach an old familiar and the like African apes…and thus also trapped…
It may also be that the inner child acting as a pseudo adult because parents fail, here a strip with humor follows:
