What does it mean to be a real man,nl
A real person has his ego, see through and overcome his false self. He died to his old self and now lives a second life, is spiritually born again. He has entered the Kingdom of God. And live in communion with God, de kosmos, his fellow man and his circumstances, which he often creates Himself. I know this in my life too, my ego is now servant.
A real man has compassion on his fellow man and lives according to the four sublime states, the brahmaviharā of Buddhism namely: Metta(love for everyone), Mudita(joy deeds of others), Karuna(compassie) en Upekkha(equanimity) just look it up on the internet. Very meaningful.
The real person recognizes himself in the following poem by Nietzsche:
I am finding more than enough,,nl,I have since learned to find,,nl,Since I wind once tegenhad,,nl,I sail with the winds,,nl,This poem tells a lot about my life and appeals to me,,nl,
sindsdien heb ik geleerd te vinden.
Ever since I had a headwind,
I sail with all the winds.
The real man covers both shores from the following poem by Nisargadatta:
Between the banks of pain and pleasure
stroomt de rivier van het leven.
Only when thinking and feeling beaches on one of the banks, and not going with the flow, creates misery.
The real man says no pain no gain and works with grace.
The real man disidentifies himself and says:’I have thoughts, but am not my thoughts, I have feelings but am not my feelings, i have a body, but am not my body, I have a job and a job but am not".
The real man follows his passion, he does what he loves and loves what he does. He chooses love instead of fear.
The real person writes down his goals in black and white and usually realizes them and perseveres. Don't give up.
The real man has a lot of humor, is adrem and likes witticisms, and smiles and smiles a lot, is smiling.
The real person engages in self-reflection and self-examination and self-exploration
Socrates said that an unexamined life is not worth living and that is what the real person cares about.
Diogenes walked around during the day with a lamp looking for a real person, they are so rare…
Society is made up of neurotics, people who are mechanical and operate on autopilot. Gurdjieff will be there too. So they are more robots than real people.
In lees in Erich Fromm: "I am a human being, I think nothing is alien to me", either I am human and nothing human is foreign to me. In the east they say you are the world and the world is you.
You have the pop-pop-poof consciousness, the parrot consciousness, that goes for most people and the creative consciousness, what is a characteristic of the real man.
A real person has integrated his inner child, as well as his subpersonalities. He is the conductor of his orchestra of subpersonalities and the director of his life.
The real man has a lot of influence on his fellow human beings and on his circumstances. You can measure your influence with the DISC test
The real person scores on the DAS test that stands for Dominant, Distant and Social in all aspects high ca 75%
The real man is congruent ie his thinking, voelen, acting and Being are aligned and that for him the law of attraction works so see my article about it.
The real man renews and innovates and listens to Jesus who said: see I make all things new.
He is guided by love instead of fear, and is not afraid of the unknown, but embrace that.
The real person loves or learns from every development and encounter and is therefore always a winner.
The real person pays attention mainly to ideas, inzichten, visions, essence instead of drama, what the masses stop at.
I just became a real person, after a crisis and a life of materialism and thinking to know. I became spiritual and came to my essence. I died of my old life and after another crisis I now live a third life of interdependence, self-realization and freedom,
Apart from all the cited examples of a real person, a real person is he or she who is completely Himself.
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