Being alone

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-1282- The ability to be alone is also the ability to truly love:
It may seem paradoxical to you, But that is not it. It's an essential truth.
Only the people who are able to be alone, are able to really love, to share and to penetrate to the deepest core of the other.
Without owning the other
Without becoming dependent on the other
Without reducing the other to a thing
Without getting addicted to the other
They allow the other complete freedom, because they know that when the other leaves they will be just as happy as they are now. Their happiness cannot be taken away by another, because it couldn't be given by anyone else. Osho (translated by me from English with additions by me)
Source my book: The true master is the master student subtitled: learn from these to-the-point life wisdoms that matter

What have I learned in 2021?

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What have I learned in 2021 : Patience

be more modest
Less judging, observe and see more
Doing will of God is love, understanding, compassion and wisdom!
Keep coaching and calling, writing and publishing is service.
be long-suffering: is merciful, tolerant, patiently, generous and kindness is charity, compassion and kindness, compassion, goodness, to be patient is to suffer without murmuring….

With Lao tse I say: "Maybe I'm the only confused head", because everyone is always so sure of themselves!’

-Facing anger with love and also with understanding and empathy
-Kaizen small steps forward
-True friendship is the real wealth
-the evil one, stiff, rational person needs love most…
-The way you see people, is the way you treat them – Zig zigglar
-You treat others the way you treat yourself
-If they don’t show it they don’t know it

Less likely to criticize and reinforce the good

Discover and embrace your inner child

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Preface:
Listening to your inner child
Our thinking often causes us to erase the words of, among other things, our inner child with that thinking like an inner whiteboard eraser and then we say that it means nothing.
It's the same idea as when you turn off your radio and say there are no broadcasts. We not only have to turn on the radio and be on receiving but also tune in to the right station. That takes practice. A training inner child can help and also the contents of this book, explaining how to connect with your inner child.
Pallas Hendriks
www.views.nl

Check drama or blessing

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Check drama or blessing?
This book was created as a result of my experience with ca 2.500 callers/coachees, who almost all struggled with checking.
This book gives good insights into what is good to check and also when it is better not to.
A lot of what you want to check, check yours.
Checking can be good, but trust is better.
Including a test whether you are a control freak or not, don't be too quick to say you're not.
Contains 300 pages of text that matter

the stonemason

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the stonemason
The stonemason was dissatisfied with his existence, he wanted to be more powerful and looked at the king, who was much more powerful and that he wanted to be. Miraculously, he became the king and was visited by the tax inspector, who was thus even more powerful and then he became the tax inspector. But he got warm in the sun and then he wanted to become the sun and he succeeds. A cloud appeared before the sun and then it became the cloud, because it was even more powerful. Rain fell from the cloud and then it became the rain. The rain fell on the rock, who was mightier than the rain and he became the rock. And then a stonemason came to work the rock…
Bron: my book: The true master is the master student subtitled: learn from these to-the-point life wisdoms that matter comes to an end 2021 uit