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Correct an ego and he will feel attacked and clearance and do not like you.
He will not accept your correction and think they know themselves better.
He sees difficulties in opportunities.
He mirrors your ego and stubbornness, now if i past…
They are often pundits and fundamentalists. They think they know the truth and feel….
Correct an awakened and he will thank you for your love for him.
He will take the correction of heart, because of its open attitude and learning capacity. He sees opportunities in difficulties.
He reflects your openness, lerende capaciteit, wisdom and love. Now and in the future….
These are often people who accept life with its ups and downs and eclectics. Troubadours coming from trouver d'or or the finders of gold…
They know that truth is dynamic and often paradoxical and a pathless land, as Krishnamurti my view rightly, which you can make your way.
‘To be or not to be that is the question!’
The answer: ‘To be without to be?’.
Distrust people think, know and feel what is THE truth and who impose.
Follow those who seek truth and occasionally something discover and share with you.
What people flip you the most?
A narcissist once said about himself: "I am clean and pure and only love!’. That proved to be reaction formation, either show the opposite and mirroring what is really, was dominance, hebzucht, egocentrism in zelfhaat. The narcissist deserves compassion, but will not assume or reject and call you a narcissist(-).
On TV was a commercial with an office scene. Colleagues were cakes Annie eating. said a colleague: "Sorry Annie but that cake of yours is not hachelen!’. The other colleagues nodded in agreement. Instead of mirroring the criticism and to return said Annie: "Thanks for the feedback!"A great answer, I think.
