If you spot it, you got it!!

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Once you do that you become aware of your problem is already half the solution, because then you know what you can do. As long as your problem unconsciously proliferates has power over you because the unconscious is 9x more powerful than the conscious.consciousness

When you've identified a problem and nothing beiträgst to solve, you'll even part of the problem – Alte Indianerweisheit

99% of the failures comes from people who have the habit of making excuses – George W. Carve (What excuse do you have not to call me?)

Often we are unaware of our own Diverted attention and life goes on "business as usual’ and it is not that great but very mediocre, No reason to complain(all you would be delighted to do!), your life is nothing special and some dull and drab, but you hold onto it because it is familiar and known

You go there probably assume that any change is still no improvement, but remember that any improvement or a change!!

I wrote an article about how we tend to leave things as they are, I send you gladly at cost. The French zeggn: The story repeats itself', Freud talks about repetition compulsion and Americans have about the reenactment, it's all new wine into old wineskins, where Jesus ZEU: I make all things new, we luistern not there to only repeat but what was already there and then expect new results. If you keep doing the same, think and feel you'll also getting the same results and the world and life evolves and so you go further and further behind…

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Addictions

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I was addicted smoke, work-a-holic, help-a-holic, relatieverslaafd, alcoholics and found that the medications were to feel the pain and not having to flee to remain in illusion and away from my true Self. Behind all these addictions will codependency and through much effort and study, I came to interdependence and become expert Attn. codependentie en interdependentie en counterdependentie, etc.

Through my interdpendentie I have the addictive medications no longer need and desire I no longer to.

Meer weten bel 0314-343821 and read my take on coaching for coaching and check my views about addiction search is loupje right in the orange bar looking for addiction

We wish you success in your actions toward interdependence and self-realization

Also visit the codependency network you can join for free and there is a lot of learning

Anything you want to check, check yours!

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Control is an issue for many of us, often without realizing it, we want to control the circumstances, people and life, and then we are just slaves and victims of.

For example, if you want to be liked, trying to control the behavior of the other person so that he or she likes you and so do you also check with him or her and you will have more value other than self-esteem and you are codependent…

I offer you now a kit to learn better by seeing your control tendencies and omit, it is a brochure on control and codependency(co-dependence of the other) from 46 pages with many useful information and a test of whether you're a control freak

In addition, I have a CD that has recorded nav. a discussion group about control.

De brochure kost 10 euro en de CD 7 euro, I now offer them together for 15 euro and I still pay the shipping costs, bestel dus gauw in de winkel dan heb je het voor de kerst nog in huis

Stop met alles onder controle te willen houden zelfs als we ons ellendig voelen willen we dat controleren door het weg te lachen, zie het bijgaande plaatje

laugh off misery

Denken

Hoe denk je?

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Gedachten hebben de neiging zich te materialiseren, let dus goed op wat je zoal denkt in de loop van de dag, in plaats van het linkerijtje gedachten zou je het rechterrijtje kunnen kiezen, het is een kwestie van keuze

Tips for happiness and life

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-What you see is what you get…

-Be thankful, if you are grateful you can not be unhappy

-Wil wat je hebt en bent ipv wat je niet hebt en niet bent

-Don’t die with the music still in you!!

-Integreer je Innerlijke kind dat je nu boycot,saboteert, etc. omdat het niet mee mag doen en dan word je ziek of hebt tegenslag en weet niet waarom dat is, therefore so!!

-Count your blessings

-Look at what it is rather than what is missing

-Afzien van expressie leidt tot depressie

-Smile more often also to yourself(See joke book in shop), veel lachen zorgt voor: meer weerstand, meer geluksgevoel en meer creativiteit

-See each encounter and circumstance as something to love, and if that fails to learn from then you are always winner!

-Think and work on your growth and development to a life of happiness and life(zie mijn boek ‘Geluk & Levenskunst’ in de winkel

-Rejoice often on things and then rest a blessing!!

-Guidance needed or desired call 0314-343821 for a consultation 30 euro per uur, in person or by telephone, resultaat gegarandeerd als je bereid bent om e.e.a. aan te gaan.