Why do not you like me?

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Many people try to change the other person in their image, They play God, who also created humans in His image and likeness. They do not realize that if you want to make enemies, you should try to change the other.

An American actress said: "Women change their partner as long, until they no longer need him ', It is tragicomic.

John is a vegetarian and believes everyone should stop eating meat, he finds it cruel and stupid to eat meat, then come with all sorts of arguments to prove equal.

Annemieke is the blue button and does her best to get her partners Drink, thus they do not they always chases the door and wondered why she always attracts men who drink heavily, or sometimes to say something about her subconscious…

The pacifist says: "I am a pacifist and anyone who disagrees with me, I turn to his head .."

A woman who themselves deliberately, wise and sees spiritually, was vegetarian and did not drink and did not smoke. She fell in love with a man who was a meat eater drank and smoked and was a tough motorcycling rocker. She did her best to change it for her ideal image, when her that did not work she made it out. Her partner said:"I love you unconditionally for who you are and accept you completely and will wait for you until you go see what it's worth '. She thought about his words and understood then that she had not been the wise teacher, that it had given conditional love, that her partner had showed her what unconditional love and so was her teacher and she made it back in, and they were very happy.

I know a man who always tinkered with his friends to make them change and do not change, if they (thereby) then accounted he always gave others the blame, He saw himself as a loving and pure and was not open to self-reflection and projecting his unconscious misery on his friends who he accused, So he learned nothing from. In 5 years he wore as dozens of friends and yet he drew no conclusions from it to his own behavior!.

You can only change yourself and eventually grow and develop. Gandhi zei:’Wees zelf de verandering die je in de wereld wilt zien’

I called my friend Peter de Kock to thank him for the inspiration he gave me, including the idea to write this article. I told him I 'Why do not you get the way I had written and he said very nice: "You should do long, because we are all equal and there is no longer a problem!’. I thought it was funny.

In ho'oponopono they also keep it to himself, by changing itself shows that also change the clients, very special is that. It is also my experience that if you change, your whole world around you completely changes. people who treated you badly disappear from your life or treat you well now, quite striking that, crafty.

Waarom ben ik bang om jou te vertellen wie ik ben?

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I now read the 112th book on codependency, te weten:

‘Why am I afraid to tell you who I am?’ van John Powell, a great book again and I come to new insights, it is unbelievable. He writes. "None of us wants a fraudster, swindler or a lie life, none of us wants to be counterfeit, be an imitation or a nepper. But the fear that we experience and the risks that honest self-communication are so intense that we seek refuge in our roles, masks and games and that's a natural behavior for us'.

In short: we want to be honest but do not for fear of rejection, fear of being ridiculed and so we play our roles as codependent. Shakespeare had already discussed the fact that we all play our role on the stage of life and so it is.

The response of the codependent on demand: "Why am I afraid to tell you who I am?’ is: "Because if I tell you who I am, you will not and may reject me and I have everything I '. Lao tse zei: "If you do not take too much of others' opinions, you stay long life of their prisoner ', Lao Tse also knew of codependency.

I'm learning now to read through this at 112th book on codependency and I think I'm the only one in the Netherlands to more than 200 books on codependency and related subjects purchased, an investment of more than 3000 euro!. It's an investment in myself, where you can do your advantage. The Buddha said,: "Happiness comes when your work and words of benefit to yourself and to others," and that is what I experience.

Don Miguel Ruiz zei: "Vat nothing personally '. That's easier said than done. What others say about you is often no clean and clear perception but a positive or negative projection. Een uitspraak is: "Even contain the worst things that people say about you and truth…namely over them!’.

If you decide another mood, you are its slave codpendente and not interdependent master having its own intrinsic spiritual self.

Quote Kahlil Gibran

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” If you want to understand a person's heart and mind, don't look at what he has already achieved, but what he strives for.”

Kahlil Gibran (1883-1931), Lebanese American writer and poet

Sloppy joe

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This is a lunch dish from Hawaii, I saw it in the movie 'It takes two', kids at summer camp eagerly ate sloppy joe's

Voor 4 personen:

500 grams of minced meat, green pepper, 1 can of diced tomatoes, 1 tablespoon mustard, pepper and salt, 1 big onion, 1 tomato, 1 tablespoon tomato paste, 1 tablespoon Worcestershire sauce, yoghonaise, mixed salad, an Italian dumplings or buns

Chop the onion, cut the bell pepper into strips and the tomato into slices. Fry minced meat in the pan, fry the onion and the bell pepper. Then add the mustard, tomato cubes and tomato puree and Worcestershire sauce. Everything 10 let it simmer for minutes. Cut through the bulbs or buns and spread with the yogurt and put lettuce on it, then the minced meat mixture and the tomato slices. I recommend eating it with a knife and fork, I did it like this and then it becomes a mess.

Croissant met spek en ei

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Doe een croissant 5 minuten in de oven en besmeer hem dan met yoghonaise, leg er dan twee plakken gegrild spek op en een gekookt ei die door de eiersnijder is gegaan, werk het af met zout of herbamare en wat bieslook en dan heerlijk smullen, super is het