Without initiative, nothing happens and everything remains with the old. Yet most people are not locomotive but aanhangertje. I learned that 5% The cart pulls the promoters are, 90% sits on top of the cart, those are the followers, parts and 5% keeps the car at which the sleepers, de pessimists en zwartkijkers
I belong to the 5% pulling the cart and got a locomotive. The danger is that there is too little trailer coupling so that the locomotive no longer true. Then I need another locomotive to get moving case weather.
I know a guy who shows no intitiatief and just talk about his problems making them bigger. He is taking nothing. Everything you give it attention is growing growing problems. He opts for the familiar to him torments and make him unhappy. He calls himself an unlucky and therefore attracts more bad luck to. I told him the story of Napoleon colonels promoted to General. A colonel told Napoleon:"What did I do today once happiness, normally I always unlucky "" You now have again unlucky 'said Napoleon "for the nomination now goes not because I need generals who are lucky'. I told the guy that I just learn from him to take more initiative because it makes you happy. I told that boy:"What would you have to do to put an end to your misery?’. Hij zei:"Yes, I will need some business'. Ik zei: "Just take initiative, What initiative do you take this week?’ "He said he did not know. A week later I hear that he had called Thijs who was in Spain at the time., Thijs said he was pleased that Arthur called because he had lost his phone, Arthur he would look like he was back in the Netherlands. Thijs kept his promise and told Arhtur:"What would you like to have?’ "I would like a DVD player’ replied Arthur. "Well then we're going to get into the city’ said Thijs and as Arthur the initiative was richly rewarded. The initiative Arthur is sometimes taken a little out of hand by his codependent aid worker who helpaholic and wants to save him / assist and do everything for him, which he learns nothing to do yourself
I am a member of LETS a club of people who are doing what each other in exchange for rating points. I ticked on the list who I know and there are a lot, there remained some onaangekruiste addresses over and I have contact with search by offering them a meal. The people were happy with my attention and responded very positively.
Without initiative do not you come to initiation, it saves just one letter. You'll have to work to create something. It is very good for your efforts now to relax you then good.
Initiatives keep life fresh and lively and then it really is life rather than survive what many people do.
I spoke in the nice cafe De Waag Scale CV mechanic who came home much to the people on the Brink in Deventer and then heard the complaints and woes of many people. He was mad. I asked him if he ever had a question. ‘Nee’, he said. I say ask them to drop what they have done to get rid of their misery, probably nothing, no initiative. He thought it a good idea.
Many people are in a set routine and are caught in habits. They always do everything the same way and then complain that their life is boring is sluggish. With a little initiative and creativity is again a fascinating adventure and plenty of worthwhile
